A trust in oneself is the best way to develop trust. In spite of this, people do not friendship with themselves. Personal health, strength and happiness are not ways of being friends with you. This is clear as most people want to please others. Loving yourself is more important than pleasing others. You will disoriented by negative comments.
People must learn to trust, respect and love themselves. The virtues help in self-realization. Others would only derive joy in changing people from their original self. People will never make you grow and develop as who you are. This is not to say that people are not strong, healthy and always happy.
The first part constitutes developing an instant inner strength. People with independent minds are role models to many. They have an independent mind, stand by their decisions, and stick to what their conscious dictates. Those offering leadership morals do not do anything because others said or did. To be honest, do not give yourself to people too much but retain an element of consultation with trusted allies.
With time people lose value in you when you do what they want always. People do not have self-confidence and do not respect you when you fail to make personal decisions. Personal respect is found in an independent mind. When in the crowd, do not be afraid to stand tall, share your thoughts and make eye contact with the audience. Fear is linked to mumbling, trailing off and shying off.
Have your emotional roller coaster on always. Life is filled with compliments and that is normal. It is easy to find people liking your clothes, shoes and even hairstyle. In spite of all the appreciation, do not strive to receive them. Let the appreciation come as a by-the-way. If it does come, then you will be disappointed. People lose self-esteem in the absence of compliments. It will kill your self-esteem. You will not do anything meaningful in life. Putting yourself at a position that you only seek for compliments means you will be hurt by negative sentiments.
Put yourself first and everything else will be okay. Perform in life as opposed to acting. Once you relax, events in life will flow. To be honest, do not give yourself to people too much but retain an element of consultation with trusted allies. The foundation of any partnership, friendship and business association is trust. Once you honest; no one will take respect from you. All good virtues must be developed and maintained. People who make personal decisions are always respected.