There is just something hypnotizing about charm. You’ve seen the girl or guy who seems like they captivate the room and put the people they come in contact with under a spell. To be charming is to be confident but it is also having a sincere interest in other people.
Make Them Feel Seen
The trick is in making the other person feel seen. To do so means that you have to be okay with placing others as the center your attention. Engage in a conversation and actually listen so that you can reply with value. That makes a person feel that you care and that you are a good conversationalist.
Touch is powerful because there is a connection and when done the right way it can influence one’s behavior. A slight touch on the forearm as you pass by or a hug to say hello can evoke a positive response without speaking a word.
The eyes are the window to the soul and to the heart. Making eye contact can send so many messages and being charming is high on the list.
Say something Nice
Compliments can go a long way in making you appear charming. However, it’s important that you are sincere. Take the time to really notice something worth complimenting. Likewise, being able to accept a compliment is very charming.
Smiling is contagious and it is also very charming. A smile can get you much farther than a frown. A smile says you are happy and positive. It can also say that you are happy to see the person to whom you are offering the smile too.
A charming person never takes a competitive position, instead, he or she has a team spirit. Charming people get invited to more parties. They appear to be popular at work and social events. And it all comes down to how they make others feel.
These are just a few suggestions on how to be charming. Consider them as you make any necessary adjustments. Have fun with it. Don’t take it too seriously. Enjoy others and your charm will shine through.